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'''<dfn>Scratch your own itch</dfn>''' was an early IndieWeb focus, and is a metaphor for the current IndieWeb [[principle]] “[[make what you need]]” that encourages [[creator]]s to understand and take care of their own itches (what’s bothering them), making things that at least make a difference to their own needs & wants.

== Criticism ==
Criticisms of "scratch your own itch" as a metaphor or principle.

Over time the expression "scratch your own itch" has fallen out of favor in the community for a number of reasons, including inducing a sense of discomfort more than encouragement.

=== Associated with bodily discomfort ===
2008-06-23 The New Yorker: [https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2008/06/30/the-itch The Itch] CW: addiction, drugs, icky/gross body things 🤢

== Renaming and refocus ==
Accepting that there may be more direct and broadly appealing ways of saying "Scratch your own itch", the IndieWeb community brainstormed about potential replacements and came up with the following options. With the most support for "Make What You Need", that's now the preferred page to reference when discussing this as a principle:
* '''[[make what you need]]'''
and the metaphor:
* '''[[cook what you want]]'''

See below for discussion of various alternatives that were considered.

=== Self-determining wants ===
Many of these metaphors have an implied principle of self-determination of what you want, rather than being told what you want.

<blockquote>I try to be deliberate, and social networks seem more and more to say: You don’t know what you want, but we do. Which, to someone who, you know, [https://craigmod.com/essays/lets_talk_about_margins/ gives a shit], is pretty dang insulting.</blockquote>&mdash; [https://craigmod.com/essays/newsletters/ Craig Mod]

=== Make What You Need ===
{{main|make what you need}}
More direct than a metaphor, '''make what you need''', expresses a method of focusing that parallels well with another principle, '''use what you make'''. As a metaphor, we could use "[[scratch_your_own_itch#Cook_What_You_Want|cook what you want]]" or "cook what you hunger" (see the [[scratch_your_own_itch#Cook_What_You_Want|next section]] for the cooking metaphor in particular).
* +1 {{t}} proposed "Make What You Need". I like "[[scratch_your_own_itch#Cook_What_You_Want|cook what you want]]" as the metaphorical expression (see below) because it parallels the "eat what you cook" metaphor, and cooking/eating is more tangible, more relatable to more people than the more abstract call to "make" something. Still I think our principles should be literal, not metaphorical.
* +1 {{chrisaldrich}}
* +1 {{aciccarello}} to "make what you want"
* +1 {{kasperzutterman}}
* +1 {{ana-r}} I prefer this one to any food analogies because "food" is a "content note" itself. I wonder if it could accidentally upset anyone with any relationship with food that they find difficult.
* +1 {{calumryan}} I agree Chris' - "make what you want" seems more appropriate, not to be confused with a focus in efforts on what is or isn't essential in the context of a website.

Or variant "make what you want". Not sure about need vs want as a focusing framing. Which is more similar to "itch"? Which is more broadly appealing?
* Perhaps the difference between the two is something which could be prioritized? Make first what you need, ''then'' make what you want, which allows one to focus on creativity and exploration. This is similar to the human need for attaining basics like food, clothing, and shelter and then creating something beyond that. Making what you want is definitely more aspirational and perhaps inspirational, though it can have the tendency to turn off those who don't have the basics yet. &mdash;{{chrisaldrich}}
* There’s a spectrum between need and want, that perhaps goes even farther:
** need - want - satisfied - full - annoyed - uncomfortable - overwhelmed
* I also think we need to be careful about drawing comparisons with "basic" needs, except to perhaps draw a contrast with creative activities. — {{t}}

=== Cook What You Want ===
{{main|cook what you want}}
'''[[cook what you want]]''' (now created) is the counterpart (preceding) to [[eat what you cook]], and a metaphor for focusing your IndieWeb efforts on your own wants & needs first.
* +1 {{t}} — I like this as the metaphorical expression of "make what you need" as the principle. The metaphor feels more approachable and specific (tangible/relatable) than "make what you need/want", and thus is a more direct replacement for "Scratch your own itch"
* +1 {{jacky}}
* +1 {{martymcguire}}
* +1 {{aciccarello}}
* +1 {{chrisaldrich}} this seems like one of the broadest and more welcoming framings and dovetails with the other side of the coin [[eat what you cook]]
* {{addyourself}}

Other consumption metaphors:
* "Drinking Our Own Champagne" https://www.mindmeister.com/blog/drinking-our-own-champagne/

Other similar metaphors:
* Write what you want to read
** Write the book you want to read
** "[https://www.ipaintiwrite.com/2013/05/17/you-cant-guess-what-your-audience-wants-write-to-please-please-yourself/ You can’t guess what your audience wants. Write to please. Please yourself.]"
** "Write the story you want to say." (ibid)
* "Paint the painting you want to see." (ibid)
** https://twitter.com/rococopacetic/status/1387526141938966528
*** "Bill Scott, a Philadelphia artist, came to speak to my class in college. He said something along the lines of "if you paint to please yourself, many others will also be pleased, but if you paint to please many, no one will." Works for lots of things." [https://dearest.substack.com/ @rococopacetic] April 28, 2021
* "Sing the song you want to hear." (ibid)
* Start the podcast that you want to listen to
* Make the tools you need — almost literal rather than a metaphor
** You're Allowed To Make Your Own Tools - Making personal side projects for fun and profit https://www.swyx.io/make-your-own-tools/

More generically:
* Create the thing you want to consume
** +0 {{t}}: I like the abstraction from a broader understanding perspective, though then it loses the ease of relating (and positive emotional association) that a metaphor provides which I feel is more important especially for new folks

Thoughts on which metaphor:
* {{t}}: Of all those metaphor variants, I think "Cook what you want" is perhaps the most universal / approachable / relatable, as everyone wants to eat, and everyone has at least financial (nevermind health etc.) incentives to try to cook/prepare at least some of their food. It hits more fundamentally in Maslow's hierarchy (i.e. compared to writing, painting, podcasting, toolmaking). Though obviously even regarding food, there are real problems in terms of food deserts etc.
* https://twitter.com/devonzuegel/status/1501232676082106370
** ""an app can be a home-cooked meal" by @robinsloan is one of those phrases that echoes in my head a few times every year https://www.robinsloan.com/notes/home-cooked-app" [http://www.devonzuegel.com/ @devonzuegel] March 8, 2022
* ...

Criticism / Weakness of "cook what you want"
* (pardon the blue laser eyes) https://twitter.com/TonySpiro/status/1480287418968199171
** "You can try to make everyone a chef, but most people just want a good meal prepared for them 🤷🏻‍♂️" [http://www.cosmicjs.com @TonySpiro] January 9, 2022

=== Be The Change ===
"scratch your own itch" is as much as admonition to actually do the "scratching" yourself, as well as prioritizing "your own itch". In this regard it is expressing the "Be the change" expression common in forms like:

* "Be the change you want to see in the world" ([https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Mahatma_Gandhi#Misattributed misattributed to Gandhi])
* "Change yourself and you have done your part in the changing the the world. Every individual must change [their] own life if they want to live in a peaceful world", [http://yogananda.com.au/para/p_peace.html#top from "Para-gram"] by Paramahansa Yogananda
* "If you want to make the world a better place, Take a look at yourself, and then make a change" - Michael Jackson, "Man In The Mirror" (all profits from that single went to charity apparently, per http://enwp.org/Michael_Jackson)

=== Create for Yourself ===
Make or create for yourself seems better than make what you want. It focuses the creation act as something you do for you, not for anyone else.

* +1 {{gwg}} proposed
* +0 {{aciccarello}} This sounds similar to what creators say (writers/artists/youtubers)
* +1 {{ana-r}} I also like this one. I interpreted it as a permission to make what you need and not to try to impress others.
* {{addyourself}}

== See Also ==
* [[itches]]
* [[principles]]
* [[selfdogfood]]
* 2023-12-26 The Guardian: [https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/dec/26/blogging-freedom-outdated-format I’ll never stop blogging: it’s an itch I have to scratch – and I don’t care if it’s an outdated format] / Even if nobody reads them, I’ll always be drawn to the freedom blogs offer. I can ramble about any subject I choose